We like to stress the commonness of heroes. Essences seem undemocratic. We feel oppressed by the call to greatness. We regard an interest in glory or perfection as a sign of mental unhealthiness, and have decided that high achievers, who are called overachievers, owe their surplus ambition to a defect in mothering (either too little or too much). We want to admire but think we have a right not to be intimidated. We dislike feeling inferior to an ideal. So away with ideals, with essences. The only ideals allowed are healthy ones -- those everyone may aspire to, or comfortably imagine oneself possessing. Susan Sontag
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  2. She had loved him for such a long time, she thought. How was it that she did now know him at all? - Cassandra Clare

  3. I love being in love, but I also love other things, like not being jealous, overly sensitive, or needy.
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  4. And I got out of there without punching anyone, kicking anyone, or breaking down in tears. Some days the small victories are all you achieve. - Molly Ringle

  5. The worst part of success is trying to find someone who is happy for you. - Bette Midler

More Quotes By Susan Sontag
  1. The truth is always something that is told, not something that is known. If there were no speaking or writing, there would be no truth about anything. There would only be what is.

  2. That's the source of the meditation on death I've carried in my heart all my life.

  3. A writer, I think, is someone who pays attention to the world.", Frankfurt Book Fair, October 12, 2003]

  4. The writer is either a practicing recluse or a delinquent, guilt-ridden one--or both. Usually both.

  5. Writing is a mysterious activity.

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